Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Is he my Abang Long?

Hari ini aku ada jumpa artikel menarik kat yahoo mengenai Mr. Right aka Abang Long. Mari kita tengok sama ada aku dah jumpa Abang Long atau tak. Hehehe...

Dating Trait #1: He listens to you
The best way to know if Mr. Next is interested in (and worthyof) being a candidate for Mr. Right? He listens to you. You'll know he's listening when he shows genuine concern, consistently remembers things you've told him (your birthday, favorite food, best friend's name, etc.), and offers emotional support in honest and thoughtful ways.(ciri-ciri yang boleh cairkan aku)

Dating Trait #2: He connects with you easily
We've all been in those relationships that take W-O-R-K (and suck the life force out of us in the process). When a relationship works on its own, it feels effortless, easy, and fluid. You don't have to force anything, forgive anyone, or turn a blind eye to red flags or gut-twisters. Instead, you communicate and collaborate with comfort, compatibility, and undeniable chemistry. If and when you experience this kind of interaction, you are on to something really special.

Dating Trait #3: He wants the real you
So often, women feel the need to sacrifice some part of themselves to make a relationship work. In the right relationship, there's no need. You don't have to hide, tone down, or apologize for any aspect of you or your fabulous life. With the right partner, you're not only able to be yourself, but you're better able to be the best version of your most authentic self -- no compromises needed.

Dating Trait #4: He's trustworthy
A relationship without trust is doomed from the start. But a relationship with abundant trust? A fabulous foundation for real and lasting love! Built over time, trust is based on the simple belief system that your partner has your best interests at heart and will never intentionally hurt you (and vice versa). If and when you discover that Mr. Next is 100 percent trustworthy, you'll have no trouble giving your heart to him. In return, he'll most likely give you his heart and pave the way for a lasting, loving relationship to unfold.

Dating Trait #5: He enriches your life
In the wrong relationship, your partner tears you to emotional shreds, brings you down, and in general drains your energy. In the right relationship, he enriches your life, inspires you to be your best self, and brings a sense of peace and possibility to you. You'll know Mr. Next is enriching your life if and when he encourages and supports you professionally, personally, and spiritually. And when he does, he may just be Mr. Right!

Bagaimana? Aku rasa aku belum jumpa sesiapa yang dapat memenuhi ciri-ciri yang ada kat atas. Nak kata aku ni demanding, rasanya tak lah. Belum sampai seru lagi kot? Insya-Allah the time will come. Betul tak? 

Dulu makcik aku ada nak kenalkan seseorang kat aku tapi mamat ni slow nak mampus. Dahlah slow pemalu pula tu. Hmm out betul! Aku tau lah aku ni agak kasar sikit dan kadang-kadang out spoken. For sure mamat tu reject aku bila dapat tau the real me. Hahaha..aku ni sebenarnya nampak je macam kasar tapi hatinya mudah tersentuh. Auuw! Satu lagi, aku memang mudah cair bila jumpa lelaki yang soft spoken contohnya Mr. X. Dahlah..malu aku weh. (cover muka) 

p/s: mana nak cari Abang Long ni?

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